Barlow, Helen Thelma

Helen Thelma Barlow joyfully danced into the Kingdom of Heaven on January 27, 2012. We can only imagine the welcoming party that was there to greet her and the laughter, singing and the visiting that took place as she was reunited with family and friends.
Our beautiful Norwegian Mom was born on May 17, 1923 in Elbow, Saskatchewan to Halsten and Clara Bjorgan. Elbow was home to Helen until the fall of 2007 when she moved to Saskatoon to be close to family. She loved her family and friends with all her heart and was the happiest when she was surrounded by those she loved.
We loved her enthusiasm for life and her feisty spirit that lit up a room. She embraced her illnesses with grace, patience, strength, always humour and her legacy of love will continue through all those who were blessed to share her path. Mom will go down in history for the famous “buns and molasses bread” that she made and so generously shared with everyone. As well, she will be remembered for the beautiful handiwork she did.
Helen was predeceased by her husband Ralph in 1995; sister Verna; brothers Ken and Gordon; and sisters-in-law Blanche and Evelyn. She is survived by three daughters, Sandra (Fred) Turetski, Cranbrook, B.C.; Wendy Barlow, Vegreville, Alta.; Amber Barlow (Kevin), Saskatoon; nine grandchildren, Darwyn (Betty Jane) Boucher, Stacey (David) Virgin, Stephanie (Ty) Stokes, Dezeri Westlake, Natali Martin, Bobbi Jo (Derek) Nyman, Shane (Lynn) Cammer, Dustin Cammer, Tiffany Cammer; 14 great-grandchildren; and brother Morris Bjorgan, Elbow. A memorial service will be held in Elbow at a later date.
A mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one else can take.

Note: These obituaries are taken from the pages of The Davidson Leader.

 

It’s in you to give

Above, Louis Zdunich of Kenaston prepares to give blood. Also pictured are nurses Linda Hilderman and Tammy Birns.

Close to 80 people attended a blood donor clinic held in the auditorium at Davidson Town Hall on Tuesday afternoon. A total of 75 units of blood were donated, while four attendees were unable to give. Although organizers said the turnout was somewhat lower than they’d anticipated, many longtime donors were present, including Leanne Osmond of Stalwart who was honoured with a pin for making her 50th donation.
A draw was held for tickets to the 2012 Tim Hortons Brier, to be held from March 3 to 11 in Saskatoon. The winners were Norlaine McIvor and Vern Manz. Davidson’s next blood clinic will be held on Oct. 3.

(Leader photo by Joel van der Veen)

Moms, tots gathering for Tuesday morning program

DAVIDSON—A growing number of mothers and their young children are gathering at a local church each week for coffee, conversation and playtime.

Chantelle Taylor, organizer of the Optimist Moms and Tots and More Group, said an average of six to 12 moms are meeting on Tuesday mornings from 10 a.m. to noon at New Life Pentecostal Church.

“We’ve grown quite a bit,” she said, adding that fathers, expec

tant mothers, those whose kids have started school already, and those without children are also invited to come.

“The group’s open to anybody who wants to come,” said Taylor.

Each gathering usually starts with chatting and coffee. The mothers are encouraged to share about their week so far and about parenting issues and concerns.

The kids are supplied with toys and games. Since last January, Taylor has also organized a craft for the children on a monthly basis, as some of the tots attending the group have grown older and are now able to work on special projects like these.On the second Tuesday of each month, the moms organize a special meal. In February they were treated to pizza; this month they are holding a potluck.

Taylor said the idea of serving food has been well received.”I’d like to see it happen every time, but we’ll see what happens,” she said.Another recent introduction is a gourmet coffee maker, capable of brewing single servings of a variety of different blends of coffee. Taylor said the addition was “a big hit.”

“Everybody’s all ecstatic over that right now,” she said.

A moms and tots group has run in Davidson for several years. This group has been meeting at New Life for close to a year.Previously the group met at the Lutheran church, but found it difficult as there was limited space and the children were constantly underf
Taylor said she has a list of about 20 members who receive updates on the group each week through text messages or phone calls. Ladies interested in taking part can contact her at 567-8203.oot.
The group has grown since moving to the Pentecostal church. In addition to the mothers attending, an average of 15 to 20 children also come along each week. 

Palmer, Hazel Marion

Hazel Marion Palmer was born on October 25, 1917 at home at Glenside, Sask. She passed away on January 13, 2012 at the Davidson Health Centre. She was the first child of Louis and Katie Mae Morrison. Louis came to Saskatchewan from Ontario to homestead in 1910; Katie Mae moved to Saskatchewan from Iowa as a young bride in Hazel Palmer1917. Hazel was predeceased by her brothers Cecil and Dale Morrison. The family moved to the farm at Bladworth on April 30, 1927. She spent most of her school years at the Knob Hill School and also went to “normal” school in Bladworth. Hazel married Roy Palmer on April 18, 1944 after a long courtship, and they shared 53 years together. They deeply loved one another and worked side by side farming in the Davidson area for 50 years. They retired and moved to the town of Davidson in 1993. Roy predeceased Hazel in 1997.
Hazel was known to many in Davidson as “the egg lady” as she delivered eggs in town for over 20 years. She would go to town once a week to both deliver eggs and have a little visit with her customers. Roy would patiently wait for her at each stop. At the end of such a day, they would often go to Harry’s Drive-in for ice cream. Hazel embraced life and looked forward to each day as an opportunity not a burden. She worked hard but also took time for hobbies such as crafts, ceramics, and flowers. She said that flowers were one way she had something beautiful, even in the hard years. She was not afraid to try new things such as growing banana potatoes in her patio potato bags. She also loved to read and that was a big loss to her when she lost her sight due to macular degeneration. However, she also took all the treatments available to her in an effort to keep her sight for as long as possible. She often said she was willing to try new treatments to help the next generation. Although Hazel never had children of her own, she enjoyed visits from all her family and friends. Everyone was made welcome, and she always made sure her guests were well fed. If she met you once, she would remember you forever. Hazel made a point of always trying to get to know a little something about you. She always listened to what you were saying, whether it was on the end of a crackling phone line or doing dishes with her. But more importantly, she always heard what you were telling her because she truly cared about what was important to you and she never stopped wanting to learn.
Hazel was laid to rest at Hillcrest Memorial Gardens in Saskatoon, beside Roy and her parents, by her nephews honourary pallbearer Allen Pederson, pallbearers Eldon Pederson, Reg, Ross, John and Gordon Morrison, and great-nephew Kurtis Merrithew.
Hazel was a strong and independent woman and her family wish to thank so many people for helping Aunt Hazel to remain independent and in her home. To all the home care staff – thank you! You tended not only to her physical needs but also kept her informed of the news she loved to hear about her town. We thank all the staff at the Davidson Health Centre. It was a comfort to us that she was in such good hands. Thank you to Rev. Eurig for your support and visits to Hazel. Thank you to Hilda for coming to read The Davidson Leader. Hazel is survived by many nieces, nephews, sisters-in-law, brother-in-law and cousins. Aunt Hazel will live in our hearts, memories and stories for generations to come.

Suicide intervention workshop a success

DAVIDSON—Organizers were pleased with the response to a suicide intervention seminar held last week at the Davidson branch of Carlton Trail Regional College.

About 20 people attended the SafeTALK workshop, presented by LivingWorks, an Alberta-based organization that trains more than 60,000 people internationally each year in suicide prevention and intervention techniques.

Instructor Terry Chapman, who conducted the workshop in Davidson, said she was glad to see the group responding well to the material, asking lots of questions and feeling comfortable discussing the issues at hand.

“People were really receptive to what we had to say,” she said. “It’s an amazing program, and it does save lives.”

The program’s ultimate goal, she explained, is to help participants make their hometown “a suicide-safer community.”

Dana Gayle Dahl, the college’s program delivery associate, said SafeTALK and other programs like it are helping to raise awareness of a taboo topic that needs to be discussed.

Participants in the seminar are taught a four-step process to be used when encountering someone who appears to be considering suicide.

Chapman stressed the importance of recognizing when signs of suicidal thoughts are present, and realizing that any such thoughts can be serious.

She said research has shown that nearly all people contemplating suicide will give clues or hints of some kind beforehand, although these are often ignored or dismissed. In most cases, these signs are intended as requests for help.

“They really don’t want to die,” she said. “In other words, life is stronger. They want to live.”

Participants were taught to ask the person directly if they are contemplating suicide. When they have established that thoughts of suicide are present, they can then connect people with resources and help to protect them from harming themselves.

The three-hour seminar is advertised as suitable for anyone over the age of 15. Chapman said it’s important for anyone who is concerned about the safety of their friends and family members.

“This is a tough subject,” she said, “but suicide is everyone’s business.”

Chapman, a Saskatoon resident, told the group she has a great deal of first-hand experience in dealing with suicidal people. Her first husband, who showed signs of schizophrenia during their marriage, attempted to commit suicide multiple times.

“I didn’t know what to look for,” she recalled. “I didn’t know what the signs were.”

She has been involved in suicide intervention for about 15 years and has been training other people in the process for the last four years. The workshop included many anecdotes from her personal experience.

Chapman also discussed some common misconceptions about suicide, including the myth that it only affects certain groups of people, or that discussing it openly will only make it more pervasive and common.

On the contrary, she said, anyone can have thoughts of suicide, and avoiding an open and direct discussion of the subject can be dangerous.

The program also featured several video sessions featuring Khari Jones, a former CFL player who was recently hired as the quarterbacks coach for the Saskatchewan Roughriders’ upcoming season. Jones is an experienced actor who has frequently appeared on stage and in movies and commercials.

Participants watched clips in which several situations were shown. Later, they acted out different scenarios with partners and with the larger group.

Carlton Trail has plans to hold a second suicide intervention workshop this week. ASIST (Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training) builds on the skills taught in SafeTALK, helping participants to become more comfortable and competent in working to prevent the immediate risk of suicide.

The two-day seminar is described as “highly interactive, practical and practice-oriented.” The college intends to host ASIST from March 6 to 7, running both days from 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., depending on how much interest there is locally.

SafeTALK was co-sponsored by the Davidson Inter-Church Association, the Town of Davidson, the Davidson Kinsmen Club, the Optimist Club of Davidson, Affinity Credit Union and Panther Industries. Their sponsorship made the workshop free of charge for all participants.

Austman, Stanley Joseph

Curling legend Stan Austman of Saskatoon, formerly of Kenaston slid peacefully away with his family at his side on Saturday, January 21, 2012 at St. Paul’s Hospital in Saskatoon after a well-fought battle with cancer. He took this on like he did a curling game, each time coming back from a major defeat, like when he was four down going home without the hammer and stole five.
Stan was born on August 20, 1936 at Kenaston. He is survived by his sister, Phyllis of Saskatoon; his daughter, Vickie Miller (Wade Boe) of Guernsey, children Dusty and Stephanie (Travis Runn) of Saskatoon; his son, Jeff (Marlene) of Kenaston, children J.J. (Lindsay Ziola) and Christine (Michael) McKechnie of Saskatoon; his wife of 32 years, Lorine Austman and his son-in-law, Darwin Miller both of Kenaston; brother-in-law and sister-in-law Clarence and Gerry Torguson; and brother-in-law Wes Torguson, as well as numerous cousins. He was predeceased by his parents Theresa and Joseph Austman, Vickie’s partner Harvey Sigfusson and sister-in-law Anne Lenard.
Stan was a man who wore many hats career-wise, sports-wise and actually wearing them on his head. He was Voc. Ag. grad in 1958 and farmed for 40 years, making sure there were no weeds, rows were straight. He also loved his yellow CCIL combines and the crews who helped out. His many careers included the PFAA as inspector at the Tartan Curling Club in Regina as a curling instructor and assistant manager; as a taxi driver in Saskatoon and later for his grandchildren, their friends and anyone who needed a ride; at the Grain Commission as a grader and in Sandy Bay as an addictions counselor and substitute teacher. Stan was inducted into the Saskatoon Sports Hall of Fame in November of 1995, the Saskatchewan Sports Hall of Fame in June of 1995 and the Kenaston Athletics Wall of Honour in 2005. His curling highlights and accomplishments were many, curling 5,013 games in his life, a Region 6 coordinator of the Saskatchewan Curling Association for 12 years and a lifetime member on the Sask. Sport Committee for several years. He won two consecutive Canadian High School Boys Championships with the Bayne Secord Rink in 1954 and 1955 and two consecutive University titles in 1956 and 1957 with his own team. He won the Vancouver Car Bonspiel in 1962 with the Merv Mann rink and also curled in the British Empire Games with the Bayne Secord rink. He curled in the Dominion Championships, in the Elks (a 45-year member) and Massey Ferguson, as well as many provincial playdowns in men’s, mixed, Elks, Texaco and Farmers. He was well known for the time he slid all the way down the ice and put the rock on the button as a demonstration, which changed curling forever by adding a hog line rule. His favourite memory was being Eugene Hritzak’s fifth man and coach in Moncton in 1985 where he realized his lifelong dream of curling in the Brier. He was a friend and inspiration to all who knew him, including the SCA, the curling circuit, his friends in Bill W. Harry Bailey Swimming, Brier, Craven, his combine crews, “A” teams as we called them. No one will forget his big heart and a smile.
A service of remembrance was held at St. Andrew’s Catholic Church in Kenaston on Saturday, January 28, 2012 at 1:00 p.m. with Pastor Gene Whitehead officiating. Interment was in Kenaston Cemetery, and lunch followed at Kenaston Place.
For those so wishing, memorial donations in memory of Stan can be made to the Kenaston Cemetery Fund, the Elk’s Purple Cross Fund or to the charity of your choice.
Hanson’s Funeral Home of Davidson in care of arrangements.

The Davidson Leader, Davidson, Saskatchewan